Hi Ladies
Thanks for all your replies. Ultimately, it's all down to individual preference but I thought it was worth offering a few suggestions. Personally, I never pack anything that needs ironing, so wouldn't have a clue about hotel ironing facilities. As I have rather mad naturally curly hair which I have to let dry in it's own time and do what it wants, I also never use a hotel hairdryer (unless I urgently need to dry out wet socks etc). But when it comes to a hot drinks, I always come prepared :)
I was interested in your point about Health and Safety Jaya. I'd heard that before but the cynical side of me thinks that it may be a ruse to get people order expensive hot drinks from Room Service rather than bring their own! Some budget airlines also refuse to allow you to board carrying a drink but are quick to try and sell you one - amusing when you see the pilot arriving at the gate with his 'Starbucks' mug in hand! Another hotel ruse - now illegal in the UK I think, was to deploy electronic signal blockers so that mobile phones wouldn't work in your room, forcing you to use the hotel phone if you needed to make a call.
The bottom line, for me at least, is that I will always pack my trusty friend Russell (as in Hobbs...). I think the day that Hotels try to stop me or instigate bag searches when you check in, will be the day I hang up my travelling shoes!
All the best (and have an amazing time with the other Borneo-ettes, Jaya)
Mandy