Hello Lisa
My first venture with JY was a discovery weekend to Leeds. A great time was had by all 46 of us. You will be well and truly looked after.
However, knowing what I know now, these weekends, to my way of thinking are getting a bit expensive, even more so, if you have to travel a fair distance.
I would say that it would be far better to pick a short european holiday as a 'tester' Whatever you choose, you will have a great time and ladies usually outnumber the men by 3 to 1.
Pick one that you like the look of and go for it. You will get the taste and come back for more.
Happy holidays
Peter